Thursday 2 july 2009 4 02 /07 /Jul /2009 20:45

Why do men visit saunas/prostitutes? Do many men? How are their serious relations? Is it more accepted in uk?

I was told of someone who visited saunas in the past somewhat often.Is this due to a sexual addiction, easy access, rejection issues? the thrill of it,Or a habit? Can one have a relationship with this person,or will they most likely continue to visit saunas/ prostitutes, when he is bored, ect? I am asking men who visit these places or women with men who have, for their input. I noticed that there is not much information from mens view about this, and I am very curious about what is the thought process. I was naive about this until recently to be honest, because I was biased and believed it was only perverted people or sex addicts that did this, and I realize that this previous belief was ignorant. Also what do you think of the women? Really what I am asking is what is in your mind thought process, and how you feel after, and if you can sustain a serious relationship with someone that you care about and meet each others needs without visiting a sauna, prostitute?

Usually men visit these types of places when their sexual appetite is not satisfied. If they have a wife / girlfriend who cannot (or will not) satisfy them, they seek it elsewhere. Some men do feel bad for going (only the ones who are "in love" & know what they just did is wrong. They feel guilty). Single men feel like those places are easier than going to the bar / pub to find a lady.
Sex doesn't just happen. Someone makes it happen, so why not take charge of your doing-it destiny? “Guys chronically complain that they always have to initiate sex,” says De Villers. “When you take the lead, you're explicitly telling him that you love sex with him – it immediately eliminates the guesswork for your guy.” What's more, when you approach him, you're in the drivers seat. “Too many women let men call the sexual shots between the sheets,” adds De Villers. “Being the initiator gives you an opportunity to set the tone and the pace.”

Helena, 27, knows the score – even though it took missing her man to get her started. “There was a period of a week and a half when my boyfriend and I just couldn't manage to hook up – we both had all these other commitments,” she says. “Well, it got to the point where I couldn't stand it anymore. After an evening seminar for my job, I called his cell, even though I knew he was entertaining some out-of-town friends. I said, 'look, I'm climbing the walls without you! Make up some excuse, blow those guys off and meet me at your place in half an hour.'” Helena says her boyfriend jumped at the chance – and she practically jumped him in the elevator. “He told me he wished he had come up with the idea, but I know he got off on knowing that I had to have him,” she says. “Ever since then, I've been putting the moves on him whenever the urge happens to strike.”

Showing him you're in a sexual state of mind doesn't demand any kind of elaborate seduction setup. Indeed, sometimes the best-laid plans require no planning at all. So be spontaneous and take your boyfriend by surprise. The next time you're home watching TV and a boring commercial comes on, move your hand over his package and get a foreplay party started. Or if your'e waiting for a pizza delivery, naughtily challenge him to a quickie.

The attention will excite him and he'll want to return the favour by rocking your world, as Laura, 24, recently discovered when she let her man know that she was up for a mischievous matinee. “We were having brunch one Sunday and Steven was flipping through the paper,” she explains. “He came across an ad for Unfaithful, that Richard Gere movie and asked if I wanted to see it that afternoon because he heard the sex scenes were way hot. I just smiled at him and suggested that we could create our own steamy sex scenes instead.”

 

 

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